Do you know for what you stand? I don’t mean what others tell you is important, but what you feel is important? Take the time to think about it. Another good way is to ask those who know you best what they think is important to you. Not what they think should be important to you, but what you really show as being important to you. Take the time to consider what those things are, and why. You need to know what is important to you and why, so that you can be true to your beliefs. It’s a good place to start.